17 July 2010

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From the above mentioned story, we can clearly conclude
that lack of proper communication and understanding
is probably the greatest barrier to effective communication
between the family.

And very often, people seem to believe that words transport
meanings from the speaker to the listener, is the same way
that for eg, a food seller delivered Chicken rice from
one customer to another.

I mean, words rarely carry the same meaning from the mind
of the mother to the mind of the child. And in fact, words in
themselves, do not transfer meanings at all.

Many a times, a person's words cannot express the desired
meaning to another person, unless the particular reader or
listener had encounter some experience with the concepts to
which a certain words refer.


And so, you probably will be wondering as much as I do!
Is communication a really bad thing to handle?

But well, I think it always depends on the kind circumstances
you are facing. I mean, it's entirely based on individual opinion,
you can either choose to hold back or to potentially lose the
relationship.

Evidently, as much as I believed, without finding the proper
way of good communication with the particular person,
we shall NEVER initiated a hateful discussion in any form
of ways which contains extremely sensitive, blaming or
potentially negative remarks towards him or her.

Simply because it might result in the risk of breaking
the potential friendship between the two, due to
a misunderstanding statement that a certain word refers,
which I previously mentioned.

Lastly, I'd say relationship communication plays an important
role in everyone’s life, to whether with your family, friends,
working colleagues, business partners or even complete strangers.

And for that obvious reason, the word "Sensitive" should
always be taken as an important factor on how to communicate
effectively online.



PS: Amazing enough, it's the most random entry I've blog so far
to seek forgvieness from that particular friend.

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My Name:
X-tin Lim


Place of birth:
Singapore


D. O. B:
I officially age every 26 April since 1984


Dialet:
Hainanese


Status:
Single but NOT available


Interest:
Blogging/Movies/Window shopping/
Food/travelling the world/Photography/
Sleeping...


Favorite Quotes:
Oh really....


Favourite colour:
Apple green/Yellow/Brown


Favourite music:
All kinds except heavy metal


Favourite movies:
Murder in the first/ the truth about cats and dogs/Priceless/200 pounds beauty/ my sassy girl/
One night in California/Be with you...
the list goes on...


Favourite books:
I don't read...maybe falling leaves?


Favourite Food:
Japanese Buffet/Thai food/Steamboat/


Oldest Friend:

Ms Kopisoh.She is my best girlfriend.Though I may not be her best friend, her laughters & jokes make me happy.
She's like a Big sister to me, and often I seek her for advice and she is like my SOS hotline.


Bad habit:

Late coming


Favourite Opposite Sex Feature:
I would have to say the height.


Favourite animal:
Pigs


Occupation:
Secret Agent


Industry:
Banking


Email:
virginluvtoxic@gmail.com


What is
VirginLuvToxic?

Infact everyone came across my blog was asking,what do you mean by "VirginLuvToxic"???
Alright, my explanation was...I was known for my virgin like thinking,and was somehow toxified by the surrounding..
So there you go... "VirginLuvToxic"!!!*