What makes me Fall Out of Love?
I guess falling in love with someone was all about
the romance game, where I need to feel love, loyalty,
chemistry, butterflies and giddiness that I do when
I m in love.
And having a great relationship is like having a
fantastic dinner, with a delicious grill chicken
of passion accompanied by a fine wine of romance
and commitment. As it was like men concentrate on
the meat of the relationship, while women get focused
on the wine, but both want to get up from the dining
Think about it, it was usually man who make the first
move during the game, while women leads the relationship
towards commitment, and men need to be dragged along
like a toddler to a dentist appointment.
Seriously, Men can be real sickening.
And that's somehow conclude the reason I'd prefer to
have girlfriends than boyfriends.
I remember there was once I dated a guy, and I felt
so pissed off when he actually asked me so many
questions about my ex-boyfriend. I simply find it so
wrong to do that during dates, and I feel like I was on
trial for something.
Questions like, "Where do you met him"? "Why did you
two break up"? and even to a newly open restaurant,
he would ask, "Did you and him go here before"?
It was like WTF ?
I mean he was behaving like a prosecutor as in keep
on questioning me. To be honest, it just turns me off,
and seriously this type of guys will never ever make me
fall in love with him.
There's also another type of guy which totally turn me off.
For example, when we are dating he'll try to be very nice
towards me, like a gentleman and stuff like that.
And when come to pick for a place to chill and relax,
that particular gentleman will ask you to choose any
place as he thinks that everything is fine for him.
But in actual fact, its never the case.
When suggest to catch a movie, he simply reply,
" Ohh, recently I've watch too much movies and I dislike
to catch a show at night".
And when suggest to go to East coast park,
for a romantic walk, his reply was, " Arghhh..
ECP will be too hot for me, and I can't live without an
Alright fine, what about going shopping with
me in the nearby shopping mall, since there's aircon?
His reply was, " Nope, it can be quite boring, since I've
nothing to buy".
I mean its fine if you're unwilling to catch a mid-night
show with me or stuff like that, my point is, since you
are such a fussy person, why not you make the decision
in the first place?
Last type of guy which totally turn me off was a guy
who constantly tell me about his past relationship.
There was this particular guy who constantly tell me
about his ex gf during our date. As in, even he drove
past a coffee shop he will be mentioning about his ex gf,
saying that, it was the place where he caught his girlfriend
red handed, dating another man.
And when listening to songs, his ex girlfriend's name will
be mention again, saying that this song reminds him of
the past, and he constantly repeated it many many times.
I mean, who actually cares about the fuck of your
Anyway, I guess falling in love with men is never an
easy task for me. As love isn't all about cuddly and sweetness.
It was like sacrificing many things for eg, sacrificing time
at work or with friends.
And most men like being in control of everything which
somehow turn me off in a way, and that their power
struggles are the key to their daily lives, and so if ask men
to give up power voluntarily is never an easy task for them as well.
Alright, maybe I m someone who can be real fussy about
choosing the right one, and most of the time feeling insecure,
and need someone to constantly tell me that he loves me,
and by letting me know that I m worthwhile, no matter
the amount of confidence I've project.
Enough of my weirdshit, let's me now show you my recent
Oh ya, the other day went to St james for their Anniversary
event with all my darlings and I simply enjoyed so much
with that free flow of wine.
Place of birth:
D. O. B:
I officially age every 26 April since 1984
Single but NOT available
Food/travelling the world/Photography/
All kinds except heavy metal
Murder in the first/ the truth about cats and dogs/Priceless/200 pounds beauty/ my sassy girl/
One night in California/Be with you...
the list goes on...
I don't read...maybe falling leaves?
Japanese Buffet/Thai food/Steamboat/
Ms Kopisoh.She is my best girlfriend.Though I may not be her best friend, her laughters & jokes make me happy.
She's like a Big sister to me, and often I seek her for advice and she is like my SOS hotline.
Favourite Opposite Sex Feature:
I would have to say the height.
What is VirginLuvToxic?
Infact everyone came across my blog was asking,what do you mean by "VirginLuvToxic"???
Alright, my explanation was...I was known for my virgin like thinking,and was somehow toxified by the surrounding..
So there you go... "VirginLuvToxic"!!!*