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Cut the CRAP!

 
I’m just not ready for a long -term relationship!
Its not you. Its me!

Sound rather familiar?
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Of all the men who say “Its not you, its me”,
99% of them are lying.

Why do men use that line as their escape hatch?
And the real reason why the line works so well
during a break up because it cuts the head off a
relationship quickly without leaving
anyone getting hurt.

Well.. that’s not always true.

Seriously, men are damn selfish creature.
The implication of the “us, not you” line, is clear enough.
He’s lying. If he wanted a future with you,
it wouldn’t be matter what happened with his studies,
careers or anything else.

Its just their easiest and most painless way out.
This line “Its not you, its me” somehow is a relationship
getaway…

3 months ago my boyfriend who broke up with me said
the same line.. “Its not you, its me”…
“Its not about your problems, the problems lies on me”…

Probably they do not know, whether its “you” or “me”,
it just hurts..

I’ve went through a messy break up with Mr T
when we went through lots of arguing, fighting
over stupid stuff.

After broken up with me, he spent most of his time
at home surfing the net , and accompany his mum.

Me?

I was going to get myself into anything else just to
forget about this creature and definitely some casual dating.
Though it really hurts at first, but I m glad I had
survived through.

Any break up is hard, no matter who’s on the giving end
or receiving end.

But he was my true love, I never felt true sadness until
he left me. When we broke up, it was like he had took almost
half of my heart with him, and that half was what I needed most,
because the half he left is the half that only loves him...

ps: Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, Pain of love lasts a lifetime
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